Every relationship is tasking. A relationship is a connection between two or more people, either positive or negative. The relationship isn’t for boys and girls but for mature people. A teenage boy in junior secondary school may develop a crush on a lady and take for instance he has a test the next day, if the “crush” requests for the note he’s having the test for the next day, he’ll blindly give her and bear the repercussion of his actions. For some unwise, he’ll fuel the crush he has, makes it mutual,l and progress it to a relationship. At that moment, all he can give is a prolly his time but he’s not emotionally, physically, spiritually and most importantly financially capable to handle a relationship.
Teens mostly ask this question especially when they get pressured by colleagues who are already engaged in an entanglement/relationship or "situationship". Age is not a yardstick to venture into a relationship, maturity
is the yardstick for measuring the right time. Before you enter a relationship,
these pointers are necessary to be reviewed.
- · Physical readiness: Are you bodily and structurally ready to venture into one? Knowing fully well that a love relationship leading to marriage isn’t for babes/teens but for adult/mature ones. The yardstick for measuring physical readiness is physical and hormonal growth.
- · Spiritual readiness: Life is spiritual, fragile like an egg, and only by prayer can it be piloted, handled, and prosecuted accurately. Before you venture into a relationship, you must hone that act of prayer. Not just for yourself but for people because situations may arise above the usual I love you; you make all back look like braids, I love you more than my mother, I this and I that which will cause you to put on your priestly garment to wage war. If you’re not prayerful or if you’ve not learned the act of prayer. You’ll be prey.
- · Emotional readiness: Relationship is for mature minds as I said. Before you venture Into one, make sure you’ve learned how to manage your emotions right and how to cope with someone else excesses if need be because the journey at every point won’t be a highway, at times it will have “emotional potholes” which you must hone how to manage it appropriately to avoid quarrels from been the order of the day.
- · Financial
readiness: Relationship is expensive. Before you venture into one, make sure
you have a source of income. It may not be a high-paying job at the start but
at least have something. Situations may arise during the relationship and one
way of acting/displaying your love is to give cash/alert to solve the challenge.
A relationship
isn’t ventured into for fun but for commitment, hence it’s important not to
jump in and out from one to another. Hence, you must be physically, spiritually,
emotionally, and financially ready before you venture into one.
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